Monday, January 12, 2009

On December 9th 2008, I went into surgery to place a Lap Band around my stomach in order to get help in losing weight and regain back my health that I neglected for 18 years by working 15 to 17 hours a day, 7 days a week.

The operation was successful but I could not even drink water for several days as the Lap Band was too tight.  The doctor decided to go back in and fix it surgically.

I went back in on December 13th for a second operation.  It was successful and was completed in less than 45 minutes.  In the recovery room few minutes later, my heart stopped.

They had to bring me back which took 33 seconds.

I was in a coma from the 13th of December to the 25th.  I woke up on Christmas day.  I stayed in the ICU for 3 weeks and a total of 28 days in the hospital.

I got back home on December 31st (My anniversary) and for the last 2 weeks I have been learning to walk again like a baby, but things are getting better every day and I am truly blessed to be alive.

I am sharing this personal experience with you for 2 reasons, the first is because God is great, I had a lot of people world wide praying for me.  It was a really tough month on my family.  The second, is because I want others to enjoy the gift of life and not take it for granted.  Be healthy, or get healthy.  Nothing in the world is worth it.  Your family and friends are the biggest assets you could ever have.

I want to thank all the hundreds of people that came to see me or called me from all over the world and for all the beautiful flowers that flooded our home for the last 30 days.

Thank you all and may God bless

- Lino "with a new life" Tadros

Monday, January 12, 2009 8:21:57 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)  #    Comments [26]   Family | Life  | 
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 12:52:54 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Lino --

All of us here at CodeGear have been thinking of you, following your progress, and praying for you. I'm delighted to hear you are at home, doing better, and with your family.

Your Pal, Nick
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 3:10:01 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Hi Lino,

I've been keeping up to date through the grapevine as to your progress. I am really glad you're recovering. Will give you a call soon.

Sean
Sean
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 4:46:08 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Glad you are pulling through. Thanks for the gentile reminder of how great life is and what is really important.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 8:25:15 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Wow

Anca and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Bruce McGee
Wednesday, January 14, 2009 12:11:53 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
I didn't know you were in hospital - quite a shock to be honest, but I'm relieved to hear you're recovering now. Wish you and yours all the best; our thoughts are with you!
Wednesday, January 14, 2009 1:00:36 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Hi Lino,

Best wishes for a speedy recovery from the Telerik team. Enjoy the gift of life for many, many years ahead!

Ivo
Wednesday, January 14, 2009 1:11:28 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Hello Lino,

Keep heads up! Best wishes for you!
Dennis
Dennis S
Wednesday, January 14, 2009 1:36:06 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Best wishes for a speedy recovery Lino, you continue to be an inspiration even in ill health.
Wednesday, January 14, 2009 8:06:31 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Lino,

I just heard about this tonight. So glad you are still here! Please continue to take care of yourself and my best wishes for your continued recovery. I look forward to seeing you again whenever there's an opportunity.
Wayne Niddery
Wednesday, January 14, 2009 9:08:34 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Lino

Just heard about this from Anders Ohlsson. Wowza. Take care, old chum. May you get back to full health asap.

Cheers, Julian
Wednesday, January 14, 2009 9:42:48 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Lino, I just heard and I will certainly keep you in my prayers. I'm glad that you are on your way back to good health. Keep up the laughter and your sense of humor and you will be fine. Miss you buddy and hope you get and stay healthy.
Wednesday, January 14, 2009 11:39:05 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Hi Lino, I just heard about your situation and I and my family wish you all the best to recover in full. I'm really glad to hear from Anders that you were already joking with him again.

Take care and really take all the time your health needs!

Best Regards,
Olaf
Thursday, January 15, 2009 4:51:43 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Hi Lino,

I read about you situation on embarcadero.public.delphi.non-technical and read your message about "The gift of life". Stay optimistic and be patient while recovering. I wish you and your family all the best.

Peter
Peter Overweel
Thursday, January 15, 2009 7:20:04 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Lino,
I wish you all the best in this "new" life of yours. Like the famous Colleen Wainwright once said, "Sometimes the cure for restlessness is rest. ". Now, who the heck is Colleen Wainwright?
Jokes aside, best wishes.

Alessandro
Alessandro Federici
Thursday, January 15, 2009 8:46:42 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
I am glad to hear you are doing better. I wish you and your family all of the best. Our prayers are with you.
Robert Love
Thursday, January 15, 2009 9:18:01 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Best wishes for a quick recovery from your students in Birmingham, Alabama.

Next time you come to train us, I guess no Dreamland Bar-B-Q for you!

Perhaps if you lose those pounds, you will be able to fit in the car with Marco Cantu!

Take care, we are not done with you yet! :-)

-Eduardo

Thursday, January 15, 2009 9:59:01 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Hey Lino, can't tell you how happy and relieved I am to hear that you're recovering well and making great progress. We all know you'll nail this thing down just as you do everything else. You've been in our thoughts back in Scotts Valley. Take care and stay well!

-Michael
Michael Swindell
Thursday, January 15, 2009 12:50:04 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Lino, Wish you a quick recovery - IB
ibandyop
Thursday, January 15, 2009 1:52:34 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Lino - Thank you for sharing this life experience. We've been praying and thinking about you since we first heard the news. Take care of yourself, enjoy your family - these are the top priorities in life. Work and business will take care of itself. You have many friends who will do anything for you!
davidi
Thursday, January 15, 2009 6:02:23 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Lino, I couldn't agree more... life, family, and friends are sacred. My father passed away on Dec 23 from a heart attack just hours before his scheduled bypass surgery. He was fit as a fox, but genetics got the better of him. He was my mentor. I'm truly delighted that you're alive and recovering, my best wishes are with you.
Lee Grissom
Friday, January 16, 2009 3:21:22 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Heart attacks are common in the obese.
Hope you manage to lose some weight with the lap band.
jamer lieok
Friday, January 16, 2009 1:14:50 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Lino,

I am glad to hear you are doing better. All of us at CodeGear wish you and your family all of the best.

Andreano Lanusse
Monday, January 19, 2009 12:33:23 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Hey Lino,
That is a scare but I'm glad that you're recovering and getting back to good health. Wish you and your family all the best in 2009.
Mehul Harry
Monday, January 19, 2009 8:16:08 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Thank you so much everyone, I love you all!
I have heard from friends that I have not been in contact with for years in the last few weeks. It is truly incredible!
I am doing much better and almost back to normal.
Amazingly, I lost already 62 pounds and I feel much better.
Hope to see you all soon. If you don't recognize me, I will be the one with all the hot chicks around me flurting with me after losing all that weight.

Love to all
Lino
Tuesday, January 20, 2009 7:19:17 AM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Hi Lino,

I am glad to hear that you are on the road to recovery. I was looking through some old bookmarks and stumbled upon one labeled codefez. I must say, I really missing reading that blog. It is long gone but not forgotten.

I started following codefez.com after you came to my last company and helped us re-train our staff from Delphi to C#. That was really a turning point in my career because of the way .NET development has taken off over the last few years. Anyway, I hope you have a happy and healthy 2009!.

Best Wishes,
Mike Ceranski
Wednesday, January 21, 2009 10:59:27 PM (Pacific Standard Time, UTC-08:00)
Lino,
Wish you speediest recovery.
Working myself 15 hour days 7 days a week, I should probably learn something from your words.
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